Therapists
who take their power seriously also take the boundaries of therapy seriously.
When they bend the therapeutic frame, they do so carefully and explore the
ramifications their action has for the client. They recognize that not all
meanings may emerge at first, and that clients may be reluctant to acknowledge
just how important a seemingly trivial exchange is to them.
Good therapist recognize, too, that the intense
feeling that surface in sessions often gravitate toward the boundaries. And
that touch, and other physical contact, may be the most emotionally laden and
controversial boundary of all.