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December 2005 - Posts

  • Christmas Eve at the Smith House

    Well, it is finally here; Christmas Eve. This is a really happy time for me. This is the day that ALL my immediate family gathers together. They all make their visits periodically, but this is one of the only days in the year that we are all together and that makes me very happy.

    We will be celebrating a little earlier in the day this year but that�s okay but because it will give my family a chance to do whatever it is they have to do later on. The tree and windows are lit with bright lights, there are gifts under the tree, lots of food to be eaten, and Christmas carols are being played. All is set.

    We usually start out eating and open the gifts after because there are so many boxes, etc. after they are opened that it is hard to get the food out. Of course, the children (who are getting pretty big) want to open gifts first. It is a little sad in that this is the first year that our youngest grand daughter Kaysey no longer believes in Santa. Oh well, they are have to grow up. We'll just have to wait for the next generation.

    Last night, our first grandchild Chris arrived from Florida for his annual Christmas visit. We don�t get to see him often so we really enjoy his stay. I communicate with him almost daily via e-mail, AIM, etc., so I get to talk to him a lot, but it is always better to see him and give him a hug.

    We will be pretty busy today and tonight, so tomorrow we will attend a Christmas church service. I love all the Christmas Carols; especially Silent Night. It is my very favorite. When I listen to it, it�s very calming. Like so many other people that I know, when it is played, it brings tears to your eyes. Some day I would like to attend Midnight mass on Christmas Eve again. I have not been to Midnight mass in many, many years. As I mentioned earlier, Christmas Eve has always been our big day together and by the end of the day, we are pretty tired. Who knows, maybe sometime we will get to attend Midnight Mass again if we can stay awake.

    To anyone who may be reading this: have a wonderful Christmas, a Happy Holiday and a very prosperous New Year.

  • Christmas Eve As A Child

    At this time of year, many people become nostalgic. I know I do. Sometimes it�s something you may hear on the radio or television or just a comment someone might make that takes your mind back to a different time or place. While I was on my way to work the other morning, Christmas music was playing and it reminded me so much of the times my family gathered for Christmas.

    When I was a little girl, we would always go to my maternal Grandmother and Grandfather�s house on Christmas Eve. My mother had 13 siblings (two were lost in World War II), but that still left twelve with their families. My mother was the eldest sister with some of the younger siblings more like my cousins than aunts and uncles. The older ones had children my age that would also be at my grandparents� house. Needless to say, it was quite a crowd.

    The house was very big, but most of the time everyone gathered in the kitchen. There, my Grandmother had prepared Calamari, Meatballs and Sauce, and Chicken Soup. Also, there were Ham sandwiches, Pepperoni, Provolone Cheese, Olives, etc. I can't forget the cream puffs that my Aunt Jennie would bring and lots of cookies made by my mother and aunts. Always, always there was fruit, figs, and nuts on the table after dinner. I really shouldn�t call it dinner; it was just help yourself to whatever you wanted.

    It was usually pretty loud with everyone talking at the same time, but the part I liked the best was when my mother, her brothers and sisters, and Grandma would sing. Many of the songs they would sing would be in Italian; songs that Grandma taught her children as they were growing up. My Dad (who was English, Irish and French descent) even sang the Italian songs that he had learned to sing over the years. How I wish I could listen to them sing just one more time. Grandma many times sang alone (usually some Italian song she had learned as a child). One of the songs she would sing I think is called �Mio Bambino�. I remember she had a beautiful Soprano voice. While all of this was going on, Grandpa was usually just sitting in a chair watching what was going on. He loved his family. How many times I would hear him say that he was rich in family not in money. Grandpa was an only child.

    There was not a lot of gift giving. We would give gifts to our grandparents, but it was mostly everyone just getting together and having a good time. Grandma would tell us to look out the window to see the North Star. She also said that the sky looked like pillows because it was the sheep. As a child, I remember thinking that the sky did look different on Christmas Eve. It is both sad and happy at the same time when I recall this memory but then how fortunate I am to have this beautiful memory.

  • Advent Tree

    I mentioned earlier in the year that once a week I teach a religion class at our Church. The class consists of nine- and ten-year olds. This being the Christmas season (Advent), I thought of a way to keep the children interested while performing good deeds, etc. at the same time. This is my third year of having the class perform this particular task and it seems to be working out pretty well.

    At the beginning of the Advent season, I cut a Christmas tree out of green construction paper for each of them and give them each a handful of stickers. Each day, if they do a good deed, be especially kind to someone, etc., they put a sticker on the tree. At the end of the Advent season (which is four weeks long), the tree is decorated and they put a Star on the top.

    When we meet, I ask the students to tell us of some of the things that they have done during the week to deserve a sticker. They are very anxious to share with me and the class.

    The idea behind this is that they are preparing themselves for the coming of Jesus by being extra good. I have been asked by a few of students if they should write down the reasons for putting a sticker on the tree because they have so many and they may not remember them all. Now, isn�t that a good thing!

  • Missing Nativity Scene

    This blog is more like a �Letter to the Editor� because I have an issue to complain about.

    I decided that I wanted to buy a new Nativity Scene. I thought this would be an easy task. Well, it wasn�t. I went to six stores before I was able to purchase one. It wasn�t because they did not have one that I liked; they just didn�t have any to sell.

    We were told by one store that they did not get any in this year. Another told us that they had not received any to sell in two years.

    Finally, we found one in a Drug Store. While paying for the Nativity Scene, I was talking to the clerk and told her how many places I had gone before I found one. While we were chatting, she then told me that the employees of the store have been told that they are not to wish anyone �Merry Christmas�, but they should say �Happy Holidays� so that no one is offended. I just shook my head. As I was leaving, she turned to me, smiled and said �Merry Christmas�.

    I left the store thoroughly disgusted. Times have certainly changed. I can remember when my husband and I had our first Christmas and went to the store to buy our Nativity Scene. There were so many there that it was hard to choose. We selected a small, very inexpensive one. It is still displayed in our home each Christmas and will continue to be.

    Sorry about the complaint, but I needed to vent. We all love gifts and believe me, I do my fair share of buying, but the true meaning of Christmas should always be there and not lost in the commercialism of today�s society.

    Merry Christmas!

  • Smith Kids' Christmas

    Today we will be attending my husband's family Christmas Party. When my in-law parents were still with us, the whole family would gather at their house on Christmas Eve. My husband has fourteen siblings. That's right; fifteen in all. That makes a pretty big party without inviting any other relatives or friends. These days, there is a party that is held in a hall because there are so many of us.
    I thought after all these years, I would write a poem about their Christmas. As mentioned above, my husband is from a very large family. His father was the disciplinarian; his mother was loving and caring. They did not have a lot of money but they did the best they could for their family. The poem hits on a few things that I thought would make his siblings have a little laugh when reading it.

    The Smith Kids' Christmas
    T'was the night before Christmas, and all through the house
    It was on Townsend Street so there was more than one mouse
    There were no stocking hung on a chimney with care
    Because they lived in an apartment and there was no chimney there
    The Smith kids were sleeping with four in a bed
    Two at the bottom and two at the head
    Dad was sitting at the table with his cigarette and beer
    For he had just come from Kite's because that bar was near
    Ma was cleaning the kitchen and sweeping the floor
    When all of a sudden there was a loud knock at the door
    It was Mrs. Bassett making all of the clatter
    Ma opened the door and said, "Hazel, what is the matter?"
    She had run out of sugar when making her pies
    Ma quickly gave her some and then bid her "Good Bye"
    The kids now awake from all of the noise
    So into the kitchen came all the Smith girls and boys
    There Dickie and Shirley and Donny and Fred,
    Ted, Scoogie and Francis; they were all out of bed
    Then Chickie, Jimmy, Kathy, and Tom next to the door
    Georgie, Reenie, Susie and Benjie; are there any more?
    All of the Smith kids, they number fifteen
    A wonderful sight sure to be seen
    Dad looked up and said "What are you all doing out of bed"
    And rushed them all off to their rooms hitting one on the back of the head
    Ma said, "It's almost Christmas. Leave them be,
    They're excited, can't you see?
    There's a lot going on this time of the year.
    So just be quiet and drink your beer."
    Ma went back to making her pies and cake
    For a crowd like this, there were lots to make
    She finished her baking and went off to bed
    And on her pillow Ma finally laid her head
    Ma and Dad were awoken by the noise the next day
    For Santa had arrived bringing toys from his sleigh
    There were so many toys from one end of the room to the other
    And candycanes on the tree put there by their mother
    Looking at her children, Ma smiled from ear to ear
    Merry Christmas Smith Kids and a Happy New Year
  • Our Good Deed

    I just had to write about what happened at the mall two days ago. As we were leaving a shoe store, my husband bent down to pick up a shiny coin (heads up, of course) and noticed a purse that had been left on a bench. We looked around to see if there was anyone that appeared to be looking for something. Nothing.

    I told my husband that I was not comfortable leaving it in a store. Maybe the person would not go to that particular store or worse yet, there was the possibility that someone might go through the purse and remove something.

    I decided that we should look through the purse, get a phone number and call that person so that their purse could be returned intact. I looked through the purse and saw a driver's license. It belonged to a retired lady from Ft. Myers, Florida. I continued to look and found a small piece of paper tucked away under her license that had a phone number on it. I thought �Great, this number is even in N. Syracuse where I live.� I called that number and got an answering machine and left a message with my cell phone number as we were still at the mall. At this point, we went back to where we found the purse to see if perhaps she had returned. Close by, there was a gift wrapping booth. We asked if perhaps they had seen someone looking for a lost purse. They had, but it was a while ago.

    This is a large mall and we did not see any signs for Security in the areas we were in. We returned to the spot a few times where my husband had found the purse, but no luck. At one point, my husband stayed there while I shopped hoping for her return; again nothing. It was getting late and it was time for us to leave. Again, not being really comfortable leaving the purse at the mall, we decided to take the purse with us and try to find the owner on our own.

    Upon arriving home, I looked in the phone book for someone with her last name, hoping the person who lost the purse would be visiting a relative. There was only one listing and they lived close by. Of course, there was no answer when I called, but I left a message on the answering machine. I continued to call this number several times hoping to have someone pick up, but no luck. Again, I also tried the local phone number that was in the purse a few more times. Each time, the answering machine picked up.

    At this point, I decided to look further into the purse as it contained several credit cards, cash, medicare and insurance cards, etc. I found another phone number, but it was in Florida. I tried that number. This time there was no answer or answering machine.

    Ok, let�s try something else. I went to the computer and tried looking up this name (not a common name, Thank God). This name was listed in Florida and this area, but with unlisted phone numbers. If something doesn�t happen soon, I thought maybe we should take a ride to the address in the phone book (but then no one was answering the phone; probably not there). I then looked up on the computer the local number from the purse and it belonged to someone with a different last name. Maybe, they were a relative or friend with just a different last name.

    At this point, I looked through the phone book again trying to find a number at the Mall. Of course, nothing listed for Security. I finally hooked up with Customer Service and left a message to call me. I received no call back.

    It was now close to 8:00 p.m. and we had been home for a long while. Despite all the phone calls, we were no further ahead than we were hours ago. Finally, around 8:40, the phone rang. It was the daughter of the lady who had lost her purse. She received my message(s). She wanted to know if she could come right over and retrieve the purse.

    She arrived moments later as she was very close by. It turns out that the reason no one answered the phone was because they were at the Public Safety Building trying to get some kind of paper work for her identification. She was to take the plane back to Ft. Myers the next day and had no ID. The police told her that the paperwork they had given her to show that her ID had been lost may or may not work at the airport.

    I told her how we decided to handle the matter ourselves instead of leaving the purse at the mall. She was grateful for that because it probably would not have been returned this quickly and who knows in what shape. She came by herself as her mother was home packing. She also told us that when she married that she never changed her name in the phone book to her married name. Had she done that, we probably would not have found her. Also, she had no idea whose number that was that we found in her mother's purse. She thanked us several times and left. We breathed a sigh of relief and were happy that we were able to help.

    Yesterday morning, my cell phone rang and it was the person whose number I had found in the purse. There is absolutely no connection at all to this person. The paper was old; who knows who it belonged to it the time she wrote it down.

    Last night, when I returned home there was a beautiful poinsettia plant that was sent by the lady who owned the purse. I called her daughter and told her how unnecessary that was and we were glad that we were able to help. I asked for her mother�s address so that I might send her a card.

    Well, that�s my story (sorry, a little long). It took a while out of our schedule at this busy time of the year, but it was worth the effort. We helped someone in a difficult situation and it made us feel good at the same time.

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