At Christmas time everyone normally goes shopping for all his or her close friends and acquaintances. It is a given that shopping will be done for everyone on his or her Christmas list. This year, because of the strange economy, more people are shopping more cautiously and the old Christmas list is taking a hit.
Instead of buying gifts for everyone, some people are concentrating only on the children and not so much on the parents and other adults. The holidays really ought to be just for the kids anyway; adults need nothing. They usually have everything that they want or need and it is very difficult to come up with something new and exciting. Kids, on the other hand, always need staple items like clothes, shoes, and things for school.
In the past, it would be unthinkable to remove someone from the Christmas list because it would be seen as an insult or a lack of caring. This season, however, the economy is so shaky, so many people are unemployed, and there is so much uncertainty, that it seems to be tacitly understood that trimming the Christmas list has nothing to do with a lack of caring, but more of surviving in this changing economic time. So, buy the kids something because they need things, and for the adults, a nice card with warm, personal sentiments, and maybe a celebratory drink, will let everyone on your list know that they are cared for and appreciated. Merry Christmas!